Errors Husband When in Bed

Why do the wives are sometimes difficult to make love? Various reasons are often made ​​to avoid the show making out in the bedroom. I wonder what the heck causes it? What is true for some actions that consciously or not, often conducted by a partner? Actually no, you want to know more? Check out the answer to answer your curiosity.

1. Moving too fast Learn to resist the urge to bed will make your partner more aroused, make your partner want more so that led to the surge of sexual experience unbearable. Learn to follow yourself and enjoy every moment without missing. You will feel the maximum pleasure guaranteed.

2. Stopping suddenly foreplay

 Foreplay is an important part of an intimate relationship. But some men think foreplay is often a waste of time and want to rush to have sex. Foreplay is like an appetizer that generally couples need before the main course. Therefore do simple things like caressing, kissing, whispering sexy expressions to touch sensitive parts will feel very different and will never be forgotten.

3. Ignoring the body language 

Although initially she was too shy to say what he really wants in bed, her body language would be a clue. Because of that notice the signs that directed his body until he felt comfortable enough to say verbally. Try to notice how your partner responds to the touch and the reaction is carried out. If you see her body begin to tense when touched, fox touch that sense of fun that is more convenient. Conversely, if still not affected, it is time to increase the volume a touch

.4. Indifferent to the couple 

Women generally do not want to be ignored in bed (who would?) Because this will create discomfort and even anger. This is common when dilakuan man has reached ejaculation. Do not leave like that, treat your partner like when you're making out, hugs and kisses so he can feel the warmth remains.

5. Free expression

 Most women have the adventure and want to try new things in bed. Try introducing a new fantasy position and slowly but surely, begin by asking gently, rising to a higher level of comfort and confidence to embedded in the relationship.

6. Not set the mood 

Set the mood to have sex does not need a designer. But seduce and caress your partner will be easier if the guy giving and providing a comfortable atmosphere. Rapihkan bed, dim lights create a soft chant music that helps create a romantic atmosphere.

7. Forgetting sensitive areas 

In fact he may be more interested in directly to the center of the sensitive area of ​​women and tend to forget that a woman's body was filled with sensitive areas. Furthermore, when you are in bed, try to kiss the back area where the shoulder meets the neck, rub along the back up to the thigh. Do it gently until she felt the incredible sensation.

8. Partner satisfied concludes

 Just because you have reached the peak of satisfaction does not mean your partner is satisfied. Remember there are others besides you therefore try to make the couple happy and provide the same thing.

9. Acting like a King

 Intimate relationships are intended to achieve the pleasure and freedom rather than displeasure and tensions. Because of that communication becomes very important. Try asking in a soft voice, his desire with his eyes or pull his body into a comfortable position and see his reaction. This approach will provide favorable results compared with the approach of command.

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Cause Pain at Intimate Relationships

Sexual intercourse for women is sometimes painful. Often, pain during intercourse due to irritation, to the risk of infection that can bleed. In terms of mental, painful sexual intercourse can bring its own trauma.

There are many factors that cause irritation such as dryness of the vagina, penetration is too deep, or because of body position during intercourse.

However, many things can be done to avoid pain when having sex with their husbands. Here are the ways to avoid pain as reported from Shine.

1. Dehydration
Dehydration can cause dryness of the female sex organs causing pain when having sex. To visualize this, you can rub both hands, you too will feel the heat and irritation.

This is what happens when the vaginal moisture decreases due to dehydration, but may be more painful than the friction of your hand.

According to the Mayo Clinic, there are several ways to avoid dehydration.
The average woman needs about 9 cups of water to replace
fluids lost. If you experience pain from sex, you should
drink more to keep the humidity.

2. Too deep penetration
For some women, the pain of sex occurs because the position
resulting in penetration inside. Before having sex, talking about sex positions that make you comfortable and relieve pain. Woman on top position, and the missionary is a position that allows you to control penetration.

3. Bacteria in the sex organs
Cleaning the sex organs is important, but too often
washing with antibacterial drugs can reduce the amount of good bacteria in the vagina.

Over time, clean it regularly can increase the infection and irritation of the vagina. Washing the vaginal area with mild soap and water is enough flavor that does not eliminate
desired and keep them clean.

If you want to use anti-bacterial medication, be sure the drug to maintain the pH of the vagina and better consult your physician first.

4. Menopause
When the time arrived menapause, hormone estrogen is no longer keep the vagina so that the vagina will be dry. Estrogen keep moisture from the vagina, when estrogen is no longer manufactured in the body, the vagina no longer has a 'lubricant'. Using a lubricant before having sex will reduce the irritation and pain.

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Tips for Using Condoms Female

The notion that using a condom makes sex session seemed to be reduced must be removed. In fact, the show having sex more comfortable, safe, and fun thanks to the this mini sarong. 


In addition to preventing pregnancy, condoms can also prevent users from sexually transmitted diseases. That is why, for many couples, sex with condoms has become a liability. 


However, a problem with rubber gloves is sometimes considered a barrier. Sex with condoms is often a sensation of lovemaking slightly reduced. As a result, not a few people avoid using it for various reasons. 


Currently, in addition to male condoms, female condoms is also what makes a woman can protect herself. Before using it, consider the following usage tips: 

1. Open the condom wrapper carefully. Torn from top to bottom with a finger.Do not use scissors, knives or other sharp objects. 
2. Note, female condoms have a wider ring (outer ring) to the outside and a smaller ring (inner ring) to the inside. 
3. Hold the inner ring condom, then press with your thumb and the side ring, and with another finger on the opposite side, then pressed to the opposite side of the ring will be in contact and form the inner ring becomes oval. 
4. Set Your best position is convenient to incorporate condoms. 
5. Insert the inner ring into the vagina so that feels has entered deep enough.
6. Use your index finger to push condom further into the upper vagina as deep as possible. Condoms do not get spun, and the outer ring stays outside. Condoms have been installed and ready for use. 
7. Point your penis into the opening (outer ring) and make sure the condom is not outside or on the side between the condom and the walls of Miss V. 
8. After finishing use, remove the condom carefully and turn the outer ring with twisted way so that sperm does not spill. 
9. Dispose of condom in the trash in a sealed condition, do not be thrown down the toilet because it can cause blockage.

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Killed Because of Condoms

 Despite its primary function as a means of sexual safety, condoms are also useful to add sensation sex. But beware, sexual pleasure can lead to disastrous if its use is not in accordance with procedures.

Gary Ashbrook Do not let the experience happen to you. Lives of a British man 31 years because of this float wearing a condom on his head in 2007 ago.

As quoted from page metro.co.uk, Ashbrook was found dead in a naked condition, with his head swathed in rubber condom over her face, in her room, Fullbrook Avenue, Newhaven, England.

While all around him, there are a number of cans of nitrous oxide, a kind of anesthetic gas used to enhance sexual arousal.

Ashbrook allegedly deliberately bandaged his head with a condom in order to stimulate sexual pleasure. HIV-positive homosexual men is to perform an action after receiving false information from a friend on the internet.

"He has a habit of wrapping his face with a condom during the last two to three months. He mimics the action of his friends on the Internet in order to increase sexual desire," said Michael Young, a friend of one house, when testifying in court.

Young saw the strange habits such sadomasokis, the trend is not normal to get sexual pleasure. "I believe what happened is kecekalan. I'm sure he did not commit suicide, but just playing around with crazy ideas."

source :
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Four Secrets of Amazing Sex

Want to have a home life filled with passion? A new book reveals the secrets that can unlock the potential of your passion and your partner.

In the book 'The 4 Secrets of Amazing Sex' by Georgia Foster and Beverley Anne Foster, reveal about the harmonization of body and mind, when making love. "We focus on the mind and body," said Georgia was quoted as saying by the Times of India.

"This is not a book about sexual positions. Anyone can have sex. But, to have sex amazing, mind you have to participate," Georgia added.

Four secrets of amazing sex are:

Flirting techniques :
"The first secret to maintain the heady passion with your partner is doing things tempting. Most people think they need to be tempted to feel sexy. Therefore, although tempting action, trivial necessary to excite. Find out, what can make him feel tempted and feeling sexy. "

Sensation :
"The second secret is all about the six senses. Absorb the energy between you and your partner, as well as remembering smell, touch, sound and taste. The six senses are often overlooked in a busy life, but without them sex boring."

Percy :
"The third secret is when you feel safe to surrender to the couple and have sex. If your mind is ready and senses feel alive, you need to feel with your partner, and your mind comes back to feel a connection with a partner."

Reflection :
"If you enjoy live first three secrets, refleksikanlah experience and your feelings during sexual intercourse. If you feel you had a bad experience, such as lack of confidence or not easily aroused, find other ways to make sex a wonderful experience. Invite a couple to continue bereksprolasi style of lovemaking. " (Pet)

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Heart - Heart! It turned out that Miss V could Locking Mr P Loh

Many stories milling about the penis locked inside the vagina to not get out during sex, so it must be taken to the hospital to remove it. But is there such cases?

Condition penis locked inside the vagina with the penis called captivus. In simple terms this condition occurs when a woman's vaginal muscles clamped with a man's penis that makes it locked tight.

Penis captivus commonly occurs in animals, but not in humans. This is because there is no medical documentation that records the penis captivus occur in humans in the last 100 years.

Yet according to studies reported in the British Medical Journal (BMJ) says the condition is not entirely a myth.

"This condition is almost the same with vaginismus in humans, namely vaginal muscle spasms unintentional which makes sexual intercourse painful or even impossible," said Dr. Laura Berman, American sexual health expert, as quoted by abs-cbnnews.com.

In other words spontaneous clenched muscles is known as a defense mechanism when something is inserted into the vagina, whether it's a penis, tampon or medical equipment for the vaginal ultrasound.

"In many cases, women and couples assume this because of lack of desire. But many women who experience vaginismus want to have sex with her partner, but they found his body can not work together, "said Berman.

Vaginismus is considered a common condition and is a sexual dysfunction in women who are often found throughout the world. One survey conducted by CETAD (association of sexual medicine education and research) tells us vaginismus rate in Turkey reached 10 percent, which is 1 in 10 women can not have sex in their entirety.

There are several symptoms that appear when someone is having vaginismus, namely:

• Fear of sexual intercourse with her partner and could not penetrate at all.
• Partial sexual intercourse (only part of the penis that can go into the vagina).
• Can not insert an ultrasound instrument or pads into the vagina.
• Grimace or fear of gynecological examination.

"Vaginismus may occur due to long-term genital pain, pelvic floor dysfunction, past trauma associated with painful memories or the fear of losing control," he said.

According to Berman solution for vaginismus is located at the source, namely the body and mind. In particular, more women are expected to learn to control the muscles of the vagina. Among key is to recognize tension and relaxation in the pelvis.

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